Life Lessons

5 Tips on How to Handle Hypocrites and Toxic people

Not seeing the need for much of a preamble, I'd go straight, head-on to the tips. They're as follows: Setting personal and professional boundaries: know how and where to draw the line. Avoiding over-familiarity when necessary, keeping from over-sharing personal information... Being firm, and assertive about your principles: The world literally doesn't accommodate being fragile,… Continue reading 5 Tips on How to Handle Hypocrites and Toxic people

Love and Life

Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty

How do you refuel when your tank is empty? I reckon you would go to the source. I believe love is a being and a doing, not a state of feeling How do you give when you have nothing left to give of yourself? You're extending yourself to full capacity and working in overdrive... Your… Continue reading Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty

Love and Life

Be Audacious! Dare to Make a Move

"To not act out of fear, To not hesitate due to fear,To not make fear-based decisions." Questions:Action - What would you do if you were unafraid?, If fear wasn't a factor for you.Pursuit - What would you go for if bravery was your superpower?Personality - If you didn't have to hide?, Who would you be?In… Continue reading Be Audacious! Dare to Make a Move

Love and Life, Thankful Series

A Healthy Way to Move on

To look at it with Thanksgiving and gratitude. That's the healthy way to grieve and move on. To avoid a damaging psyche. To not dwell on the negatives, as it leaves you stuck in and stuck on the past. To focus on the positives instead. But that doesn't mean fantasying, about what could be and… Continue reading A Healthy Way to Move on

Life Lessons, Thankful Series

How To Win at Life: Thanksliving!

Thanksgiving is good. Thanksliving is better - Debi Pearl We win from a stance (position) of victory. Thankfulness is how you think; joy is the abundance it produces. With Thanksgiving as a lifestyle, we thank in advance. You begin by speaking out loud, how thankful you are for everything in your life, everyone, every blessing.… Continue reading How To Win at Life: Thanksliving!

Life Lessons

Definitive Treatment

For many not familiar with what this medical phrase means; it's a form of treatment that is specific, and permanent. As it's directed at eradicating the root cause of the problem. It's treatment that directly addresses the underlying factors, in a bid to make recovery permanent. The opposite is what we call palliative care. Now,… Continue reading Definitive Treatment

Love and Life

Change: The Process

Change comes when it hurts so much that you have to change, when you learn so much that you want to change, and when you receive so much that you welcome change. Usually, we don't change until the pain of staying the same becomes unbearable. Personal Change For change to occur, a catalyst must be… Continue reading Change: The Process

Thoughts about God

Escapism

Hello There!✋ Last week, I wrote about depression, and took a psychological and clinical approach to it, as well as a bit of solutions in that regard. For a while now, the Lord has laid it on my heart and impressed on me to write about the above topic👆. So here goes, while depression is… Continue reading Escapism

Life Lessons

The Pitfalls of Comparison

A wise friend of mine, correctly observed that Instagram has the tendency of creating a feeling of discontent and dissatisfaction with oneself. She richly made the wise decision of actively blocking out anything and everything that gave such negative vibes. Protect yourself on the path to wholeness. The more we focus on the lives of… Continue reading The Pitfalls of Comparison