Love Lessons

Love is Acceptance

Holla friends! How's this week going for you? Yeah, its the season of love, the month of love and the week of Valentine. As we gradually countdown to valentine's day, I wonder what kind of thoughts and emotions fill your system right now. Are you perhaps tension-filled? With pressure to impress a loved one with… Continue reading Love is Acceptance

Love and Life

A Lesson in Misdirection… Leads to a Redirection

It was a beautiful Saturday morning when I learnt this lesson. I had an experience and encounter that day when God dropped the above phrase in my spirit. That blessed day, I went for an outreach but got to the wrong venue. Everything looked right, like the real deal. The setup, the environment, the people,… Continue reading A Lesson in Misdirection… Leads to a Redirection

Love Lessons

Love is Forgiveness

Love is saying: "I forgive you, not because you asked me to, but because I love you and love forgives" - Tiwalade Awosika Forgiving, even when you're not in the mood to, or still angry at them. One key principle I've learnt is to: "PRACTICE FORGIVING IN ADVANCE". It brings you a whole lot of… Continue reading Love is Forgiveness

Thoughts about God

Leap of Faith

Ever heard the above expression before? It's been used severally in different circumstances of life. Often when a person is about to take a daring, sometimes ridiculous move. One that's deemed radical or not quite rational by common sense and human standards. It's daring the odds, believing things would work out and turn out fine.… Continue reading Leap of Faith

Life Lessons

Staying True to Self

I had a conversation with a friend recently, and it was quite insightful. She has inspired me more than once and I started to have some deep personal questions after our talk. The things she told me about herself sparked some similarities within my own heart. It felt wonderful to know that I wasn't alone.… Continue reading Staying True to Self

Love and Life

Fickle Feelings…

I had an oral surgical procedure done sometime last year and through that experience, I learnt an important life lesson: THE FICKLENESS OF FEELINGS; how fickle Feelings are or can be. Feelings can deceive us into believing something false is very real. After my procedure ended, I thought and felt that my face was saggy… Continue reading Fickle Feelings…

Love and Life

Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty

How do you refuel when your tank is empty? I reckon you would go to the source. I believe love is a being and a doing, not a state of feeling How do you give when you have nothing left to give of yourself? You're extending yourself to full capacity and working in overdrive... Your… Continue reading Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty

Love and Life

Content With Doing the Barest Minimum

Are you? Content with doing the barest minimum? With doing just enough to get by? Can you live by that? Or would you rather go the extra mile? Why do you do what you do? Whose applause and approval do you seek? For the applause and approval of one... Would you still do what you… Continue reading Content With Doing the Barest Minimum

Love and Relationships

Should You Put Your Dreams on Hold?

There was a conversation amidst a couple of friends, and it revolved around marriage, getting a man and all... I was mute for pretty much the entire conversation. My friend thought my silence to represent disinterest or inattention. For me, I was in a different headspace, my mindset varying; my mind set on other things.… Continue reading Should You Put Your Dreams on Hold?