Usually, I'd wait till I had defined answers and a set thought frame on a topic before posting on it. But I don't have all the answers. I'd love to read your thoughts and know what you think on this dicey topic. I'm going to share two schools of thoughts regarding expectations. The point is… Continue reading Expectations: Pitfalls for Disappointment? Or Setup for Greatness!
How do you refuel when your tank is empty? I reckon you would go to the source. I believe love is a being and a doing, not a state of feeling How do you give when you have nothing left to give of yourself? You're extending yourself to full capacity and working in overdrive... Your… Continue reading Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty
Thanksgiving is good. Thanksliving is better - Debi Pearl We win from a stance (position) of victory. Thankfulness is how you think; joy is the abundance it produces. With Thanksgiving as a lifestyle, we thank in advance. You begin by speaking out loud, how thankful you are for everything in your life, everyone, every blessing.… Continue reading How To Win at Life: Thanksliving!
For many not familiar with what this medical phrase means; it's a form of treatment that is specific, and permanent. As it's directed at eradicating the root cause of the problem. It's treatment that directly addresses the underlying factors, in a bid to make recovery permanent. The opposite is what we call palliative care. Now,… Continue reading Definitive Treatment
I used to think there was nothing of such, but I've been proven wrong. You might think what makes a job perfect would be the monetary renumeration, working conditions, perks and benefits, and you'll be right. But that's not all there is to it. The Ideal job is one that brings forth opportunities to advance,… Continue reading What is The Ideal and Perfect Job? Smart Work Vs Hard Work
I've observed that life lessons would always repeat themselves when you haven't learnt them properly. Past lessons would keep repeating for as long as you need to learn and relearn. Experiences of the past repeating themselves, sounds very much like a tragedy. Permit me if the lessons sound a bit gender biased, but they're from… Continue reading 12 Life Lessons on Love
A wise friend of mine, correctly observed that Instagram has the tendency of creating a feeling of discontent and dissatisfaction with oneself. She richly made the wise decision of actively blocking out anything and everything that gave such negative vibes. Protect yourself on the path to wholeness. The more we focus on the lives of… Continue reading The Pitfalls of Comparison
This year has been quite eventful on its own, full of new experiences, challenges and adventures. A new phase of adulting is what it has been. One feature, that has been a prominent occurrence and my least favorite, is "financial worry" - having financial concerns, having to worry about money... What I've learnt is how… Continue reading 3 Tips on a Financial Guide to Surviving Adulthood
One principle I love to practice in my life, especially physically, is that of decluttering. As much as I love keeping stuff (physically) and memories (mentally), I also know when I've held on long enough, and when to let go without regrets, having fully maximized their utility. It gets to a point, when certain stuff,… Continue reading LETTING GO
I remember a point in my life where I couldn't quite say "NO". I hadn't understood or harnessed it's power. The freedom and liberation it brings. I often found myself saying so many yeses, to things quite unacceptable for me. Agreeing to tasks, offers, requests, responsibilities and all sorts of financial commitments. In the end,… Continue reading Before You Say Yes Ever; Think!