Life Lessons

The Bane of Self-Sabotage.

Are you prone to exhibiting self-sabotaging behaviour? How do you even know if you are, assuming it's become a rather subconscious habit of yours, unintentionally developed over time? It's like you're armed on a battlefield, only to find that the enemy is yourself. By self-sabotage, you're practically shooting yourself in the leg and stunting your… Continue reading The Bane of Self-Sabotage.

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Race: Run With Purpose. Featuring Life Lessons from a Game.

There are so many metaphors with which to describe life. As individuals, we each have our own definition of what life means to us. A general metaphoric scenario is that life is a race. We all run, but the manner in which we run is what makes us different, and sets us apart from the… Continue reading Race: Run With Purpose. Featuring Life Lessons from a Game.

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A Lesson in Desperation

Indeed not everything that glitters is gold. Not everything opportunity is a ‘blessing’. Not everything that looks attractive is good. Never get so desperate for anything in life that you start to think or feel like you have no options, that you totally depend on it. Remember, you always have a choice. At the point… Continue reading A Lesson in Desperation

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Behind the Scenes of the Perfect-dish Mentality

Is often a mess. You don't see what it took to get there. Only the results, mostly that's what people care about, not the process but end results... However, life is not all cookie-cutter and perfect. Perfectionism is a myth, don't fall for the bane. You're allowed to simultaneously be a work in progress and… Continue reading Behind the Scenes of the Perfect-dish Mentality

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How do you Avoid Flying Off the Handle?

Are you familiar with the idiomatic expression "fly off the handle"? Well, for clarity sake and to do away with ambiguity, it means: to lose one's temper suddenly and unexpectedly. I'm no anger management expert. But we all must admit that anger is a natural feeling that we all feel as humans, and to different… Continue reading How do you Avoid Flying Off the Handle?

Thoughts about God

Count the Cost.

Scriptural Reference: Luke 14:28-30. This is why I often try my best to always count the cost. I don't like unfinished businesses. I strive to make sure whatever it is that I start, I'm without a shred of doubt able to complete it. However, at this point in my life, I've found myself getting involved… Continue reading Count the Cost.

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A Lesson in Missed Opportunities

Many times we're looking, but not really seeing. Opportunities lie right in front of us but we're much too blind, or rather just distracted to see them. Like distorted glasses covering our eyes, we need them removed to get a higher, a greater perspective towards life. Sometimes, we just have our energies focused on the… Continue reading A Lesson in Missed Opportunities

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A Lesson in Desperation

Indeed not everything that glitters is gold. Not everything opportunity is a 'blessing'. Not everything that looks attractive is good. Never get so desperate for anything in life that you start to think or feel like you have no options, that you totally depend on it. Remember, you always have a choice. At the point… Continue reading A Lesson in Desperation

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Endless Unknown Possibilities…

The singular thought that weighs the soul down in time of grief... The mind boggling thoughts of uncertainties, what ifs, unanswered questions. Really, questions you'd never know the answers to. You find yourself going back in time, rewinding time in your mind, trying to picture alternate possibilities and realities... Wondering... Pondering... Until you find yourself… Continue reading Endless Unknown Possibilities…

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25 Life Lessons at 25

Spoiler alert! This is a birthday post. I turn silver today, a quarter of a century. Cool ain't it? I've decided to share some of my favourite life lessons with you as a birthday memoir. The lessons span my core three topics on the blog: LIFE, LOVE and of course GOD. This post is a… Continue reading 25 Life Lessons at 25