Life Lessons

The Bane of Self-Sabotage.

Are you prone to exhibiting self-sabotaging behaviour? How do you even know if you are, assuming it's become a rather subconscious habit of yours, unintentionally developed over time? It's like you're armed on a battlefield, only to find that the enemy is yourself. By self-sabotage, you're practically shooting yourself in the leg and stunting your… Continue reading The Bane of Self-Sabotage.

Life Lessons

Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty

How do you refuel when your tank is empty? I reckon you would go to the source. I believe love is a being and a doing, not a state of feeling How do you give when you have nothing left to give of yourself? You’re extending yourself to full capacity and working in overdrive… Your… Continue reading Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty

Life Lessons

How do you Avoid Flying Off the Handle?

Are you familiar with the idiomatic expression "fly off the handle"? Well, for clarity sake and to do away with ambiguity, it means: to lose one's temper suddenly and unexpectedly. I'm no anger management expert. But we all must admit that anger is a natural feeling that we all feel as humans, and to different… Continue reading How do you Avoid Flying Off the Handle?

Thoughts about God

Understanding The Unchanging Nature of God

The steadfastness of His love, His immovable character, faithful to His conditional promises. You must choose to do what God has clearly told you to do. He’s laid it out in His Word. He said, “I will do this, the promise, if you will obey the premise.” - Rick Warren Christ is the anchor that… Continue reading Understanding The Unchanging Nature of God

Love and Life

The Love Chapter

Everyday life is a learning adventure. That's my philosophy. Our eyes constantly being enlightened to new truths, with a continuous heart and mindset change. What would love possibly mean to you? What does love look like to you? Tell me, or better yet, show me, the color of love? What is the ideal, what should… Continue reading The Love Chapter

Love and Relationships

12 Life Lessons on Love

I've observed that life lessons would always repeat themselves when you haven't learnt them properly. Past lessons would keep repeating for as long as you need to learn and relearn. Experiences of the past repeating themselves, sounds very much like a tragedy. Permit me if the lessons sound a bit gender biased, but they're from… Continue reading 12 Life Lessons on Love