Love and Life

A Lesson in Misdirection… Leads to a Redirection

It was a beautiful Saturday morning when I learnt this lesson. I had an experience and encounter that day when God dropped the above phrase in my spirit. That blessed day, I went for an outreach but got to the wrong venue. Everything looked right, like the real deal. The setup, the environment, the people,… Continue reading A Lesson in Misdirection… Leads to a Redirection

Love and Life

Fickle Feelings…

I had an oral surgical procedure done sometime last year and through that experience, I learnt an important life lesson: THE FICKLENESS OF FEELINGS; how fickle Feelings are or can be. Feelings can deceive us into believing something false is very real. After my procedure ended, I thought and felt that my face was saggy… Continue reading Fickle Feelings…

Love and Life

Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty

How do you refuel when your tank is empty? I reckon you would go to the source. I believe love is a being and a doing, not a state of feeling How do you give when you have nothing left to give of yourself? You're extending yourself to full capacity and working in overdrive... Your… Continue reading Drained, Emotionally exhausted; Love tank running on Empty

Love and Life

Be Audacious! Dare to Make a Move

"To not act out of fear, To not hesitate due to fear,To not make fear-based decisions." Questions:Action - What would you do if you were unafraid?, If fear wasn't a factor for you.Pursuit - What would you go for if bravery was your superpower?Personality - If you didn't have to hide?, Who would you be?In… Continue reading Be Audacious! Dare to Make a Move

Love and Life

Content With Doing the Barest Minimum

Are you? Content with doing the barest minimum? With doing just enough to get by? Can you live by that? Or would you rather go the extra mile? Why do you do what you do? Whose applause and approval do you seek? For the applause and approval of one... Would you still do what you… Continue reading Content With Doing the Barest Minimum

Love and Life, Thankful Series

A Healthy Way to Move on

To look at it with Thanksgiving and gratitude. That's the healthy way to grieve and move on. To avoid a damaging psyche. To not dwell on the negatives, as it leaves you stuck in and stuck on the past. To focus on the positives instead. But that doesn't mean fantasying, about what could be and… Continue reading A Healthy Way to Move on

Love and Life

Change: The Process

Change comes when it hurts so much that you have to change, when you learn so much that you want to change, and when you receive so much that you welcome change. Usually, we don't change until the pain of staying the same becomes unbearable. Personal Change For change to occur, a catalyst must be… Continue reading Change: The Process

Love and Life

The Love Chapter

Everyday life is a learning adventure. That's my philosophy. Our eyes constantly being enlightened to new truths, with a continuous heart and mindset change. What would love possibly mean to you? What does love look like to you? Tell me, or better yet, show me, the color of love? What is the ideal, what should… Continue reading The Love Chapter

Love and Life

Before You Say Yes Ever; Think!

I remember a point in my life where I couldn't quite say "NO". I hadn't understood or harnessed it's power. The freedom and liberation it brings. I often found myself saying so many yeses, to things quite unacceptable for me. Agreeing to tasks, offers, requests, responsibilities and all sorts of financial commitments. In the end,… Continue reading Before You Say Yes Ever; Think!