The older I grow, the more I realise I need less friends. I believe myself to be very friendly and jovial. I make new friends easily. But I’m also discovering the need for less of quantity and more of quality. The need for true quality friends. I’d rather have just one loyal friend, than a… Continue reading Life’s Shuffle
We're all wearing masks. I don't mean it in just the literal sense, but also figuratively. While we wear physical masks, how about the masks we wear for our souls? We sometimes don a facade to avoid baring our true selves, the core identity we carry. Have you ever been surprised by a person's true… Continue reading The Hidden Self
In honour of the Father's day celebration. The unsung heroes are sadly not as celebrated or recognized as much as mothers. We have numerous mother's days throughout the year but just one for fathers. This blog post also does a movie review for the Netflix movie "Fatherhood" starring Kevin Hart in an against-type role. It's… Continue reading Fatherhood
What is it about happiness, that makes it seem elusive? The concept itself just sometimes seems too hard to grasp. Aloof to its meaning, it easily slips through the fingers like sand rather than be concrete like stone. If Happiness could be rock solid 💛 At times, it just seems so distant. I dare ask,… Continue reading The Pursuit Of Happiness
The phrase "the truth is sometimes bitter", is one we all can reckon with at some point in our lives. When a lie sounds better than the truth, we tend to spin the version of a story that brings less pain. I know this because I've done it myself. We recall memories of our past… Continue reading Shading the Truth
False hope is one of the single most excruciatingly painful emotional experiences any human could ever have. False hope can be likened to heartbreak, it can feel devastatingly suffocating, it can extinguish the light in a person's mind and plunge their heart into a state of darkness... Do you find yourself constantly giving second, third… Continue reading False Hope
A wise friend of mine, correctly observed that Instagram has the tendency of creating a feeling of discontent and dissatisfaction with oneself. She richly made the wise decision of actively blocking out anything and everything that gave such negative vibes. Protect yourself on the path to wholeness. The more we focus on the lives of… Continue reading The Pitfalls of Comparison
These are meant to be two polar opposite words. Sadly is the truth and the reality that compromise and The Christian are fast becoming homologous, synonymous, one and the same… To clear the air and ensure we’re all on the same page, I’ll go into a little bit of definition. According to the English dictionary,… Continue reading Compromise and The Christian
Scriptural Reference: Luke 14:28-30. This is why I often try my best to always count the cost. I don’t like unfinished businesses. I strive to make sure whatever it is that I start, I’m without a shred of doubt able to complete it. However, at this point in my life, I’ve found myself getting involved… Continue reading Count the Cost.
This is the third and final post I’ll be writing in the love lessons category on the blog. To read the previous posts, click here. Now to the main gist. You might have heard and perhaps read previous articles on how love is sacrifice, or rather the sacrifice that love is. But before I delve… Continue reading Love is Sacrifice
