Indeed not everything that glitters is gold. Not everything opportunity is a ‘blessing’. Not everything that looks attractive is good. Never get so desperate for anything in life that you start to think or feel like you have no options, that you totally depend on it. Remember, you always have a choice. At the point […]
Never look for anything when you’re desperate.
Do not look for anything when desperate.
Not a job, a house or a man.
Desperation leads to settling.
I’ve found myself constantly settling for desperate things. I experience a drought, and then I settle for the next readily available thing. I’m glad I’m not that way anymore.
Sit back and properly evaluate. Don’t just take a head dive. Smell the water, take a nosedive and check for sharks. See if that thing is a good fit for you. Do some research, seek counsel by talking to someone older, wiser or more experienced than you if possible. Their experiences will go a long way in helping you make the right choice and preventing you from making unnecessary mistakes.
It’ll be good to always take a test drive first, to see if it’s a good fit before you take it. I mean we do the same for material things like clothes, shoes, houses… No one buys such without sampling it first. It’s just not wise.